What I ended up liking was not what I ever imagined wearing! I went in saying that I would not wear a satin, strapless, poofy ballgown. I was looking for an all-over lace, simple, v-neck dress. The problem came in when I realized that the strapless, a-line satin gowns really fit my body type well and were the ones getting the most oooh's and ahhh's from friends and staff.
I tried on about 25 dresses at 3 different stores. Here are some of the favorites and their respective price tags:

Once I knew what I wanted (simple, elegant, a-line, strapless with a sweetheart neckline, and a great price) I went shopping on Ebay. A lot of gowns there are really bad knockoffs from China, which I found could be sorted through and among the 1000's of auctions there are several 'diamonds

My dress is Marisa 569 by designer Tamera Kirstin. It is a silk-satin gown that was not only popular before being discontinued in 2008, but was also selling for $1600. After shipping I paid $170, and the dress arrived a few days later in stunning condition. I will pay $125 to have it cleaned (by d'Anneli bridals who carry the Marisa line and know how to care for the fabric she uses in her gowns) and have spend $3.00 on new buttons for the back. Altogether, I will have spent less than $300 for my dress, which is what Dave will be spending on his suit! The dress is simple, elegant, sweet, and romantic. I can't wait to wear this dress, and can't imagine any other gown to marry Dave in!